This will be kind of a lame post, but I have to release it and see if it helps. So lately I have been feeling really pressured to have another baby. I do not feel near ready to have another one and quite enjoy my time with Huntyr. I can't get over the pressure I am feeling by no fault of anyone but me.
This is why I am feeling pressured.
- I only have one child the pressure to not have an only child...is pressure
- All my friends, well most have more than one child
- I want my kids close but how close is close, should I be having one now
- I don't want to be old when they get grown up..selfish reason I know
- I am getting older (by Utah standards) as having kids
- We have been married for 8 1/2 years and only have 1 child
- people at work telling me I need to have another one
Can someone just tell me its okay to wait until I'm completely ready and that my points are valid?
I just want to enjoy this mug for a while longer